“Find what you like and let it kill you.”

 

Kinky Friedman said, “Find what you like and let it kill you.”

The title of this piece, “Find What You Love, and Let It Kill You,” is taken from a popular quote misattributed to Charles Bukowski, the renowned German-American poet. In reality, the original quote belongs to the singer Kinky Friedman, with the word “like” instead of “love.”

Word on the net is, the quote came from one of Bukowski’s letters. It’s unverified and most likely fake, but I nevertheless find the words beautiful.

The letter goes like this:

“My dear,

Find what you love and let it kill you. Let it drain from you your all. Let it cling onto your back and weigh you down into eventual nothingness. Let it kill you, and let it devour your remains.

For all things will kill you, both slowly and fastly, but it’s much better to be killed by a lover.

Falsely yours, Henry Charles Bukowski.”

That “falsely yours” at the end says it all. This isn’t Bukowski, and whoever wrote it should’ve given themself some credit instead of stealing the poet’s name. Kudos for writing this piece, whoever you are, but shame for the misattribution.

New pill being tested to help the brain heal

 

This could be a game changer:

New pill being tested to help the brain heal

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A new pill is currently being tested in clinical trials to help the brain heal after injury or trauma. This pill works by promoting the growth of new brain cells and reducing inflammation in the brain, which can aid in the recovery process.

Early results from the trials are promising, with patients experiencing improvements in cognitive function, memory, and overall brain health. Researchers are hopeful that this pill could be a game-changer in the treatment of brain injuries and other neurological conditions.

If successful, this new pill could offer hope to the millions of people around the world who suffer from brain injuries and neurological disorders. Further research is ongoing, but the outlook is positive for this innovative new treatment.

 

Incarceration and Imagination:A symposium at Yale University

Incarceration and Imagination. A symposium at Yale University

 Session 1, The Literary History of the Incarcerated Mind.

Prison has become the punitive shadow to all the major institutions of modernity. How has contemporary mass incarceration shaped inner life, public spectacle, moral possibilities? How does writing from inside and outside prison walls help us imagine a future beyond the carceral state. This day-long symposium in the Humanities Quadrangle at Yale—featuring scholars, prison education advocates, writers, and more—is free and open to all.

The Symposium starts from the fact of mass incarceration in the US today and attempts to understand how mind reacts to imprisonment—both the image and the reality. For over two centuries, Western societies have built a penal system founded principally on incarceration. How has this fact shaped inner life, public spectacle, moral possibilities? How might artistic creation about incarceration help us bring about a more humane future? Sponsored by Whitney Humanities Center, the Arthur Liman Center at Yale Law, and Freedom Reads. The organizers thank Richard Weisberg and the Law and Humanities Institute for additional support for the symposium.

https://youtu.be/rZr3eu6FVpY

Self Care

 

"Take care of your body. It's the only place you have to live." — Jim Rohn

“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.” — Buddha

“Self-care is how you take your power back.” — Lalah Delia ​

“Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it.” — Anna Taylor

 “What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” — Ralph Waldo Emerson

“Mindfulness isn’t difficult. We just need to remember to do it.” — Sharon Salzberg

“Doing nothing is sometimes the most productive thing.” — Paulo Coelho

“Your calm mind is the ultimate weapon against your challenges.” — Bryant McGill

“Owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we’ll ever do.” — Brené Brown

People who love themselves don’t hurt other people. The more we hate ourselves, the more we want others to suffer.” — Dan Pearce

 “We accept the love we think we deserve.” — Stephen Chbosky 

 “Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” — Lucille Ball

 

“To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance.” — Oscar Wilde

  “Loneliness is a sign you are in desperate need of yourself.” — Rupi Kaur

“Happiness is an inside job. Don’t assign anyone else that much power over your life.” — Mandy Hale

“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” — Dalai Lama

“Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do are in harmony.” — Mahatma Gandhi

“If you are happy, you can give happiness. If you don’t love yourself and if you are unhappy with yourself, you can’t give anything else but that.” — Gisele Bundchen

 “Be healthy and take care of yourself, but be happy with the beautiful things that make you, you.” — Beyonce

“The key to being happy is knowing you have the power to choose what to accept and what to let go.” — Dodinsky

  “Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

 

“The happiest people don’t have the best of everything; they make the best of everything.” — Unknown

“The best way to cheer yourself up is to cheer somebody else up.” — Mark Twain

  “The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it’s all that matters.” — Audrey Hepburn

  “We do not have the right to feel helpless. We must help ourselves. After destiny has delivered what it delivers, we are responsible for our lives.” — Cheryl Strayed

“Keep taking time for yourself until you’re you again.” — Lalah Delia

 “Find the love you seek by first finding the love within yourself. Learn to rest in that place within you that is your true home.” — Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

“Love yourself unconditionally, just as you love those closest to you despite their faults.” — Les Brown

  

“If you have the ability to love, love yourself first.” — Charles Bukowski

“Keep watering yourself. You’re growing.” — E. Russell

 

“The things that make me different are the things that make me.” — Winnie the Pooh, A.A. Milne

 “A person learns how to love himself through the simple acts of loving and being loved by someone else.” — Haruki Murakami

“Daring to set boundaries is about having the courage to love ourselves even when we risk disappointing others.” — Brené Brown

“Plant hope in your heart’s wounds.” — Alexandra Vasiliu

“You find peace not by rearranging the circumstances of your life, but by realizing who you are at the deepest level.” — Eckhart Tolle

“You are very powerful, provided you know how powerful you are.” — Yogi Bhajan

“If you aren’t good at loving yourself, you will have a difficult time loving anyone, since you’ll resent the time and energy you give another person that you aren’t even giving to yourself.” — Barbara De Angelis

 

“Be about ten times more magnanimous than you believe yourself capable of. Your life will be a hundred times better for it.” — Cheryl Strayed

“The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.” — Carl Gustav Jung

“It took me a long time not to judge myself through someone else’s eyes.” — Sally Field

“You’re always with yourself, so you might as well enjoy the company.” — Diane von Furstenberg

 

“You have to believe in yourself when no one else does—that makes you a winner right here.” — Venus Williams

“You must want to spend the rest of your life with yourself first.” — Rupi Kaur  

 

 

“One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.” — Shannon L. Alder

“I took a deep breath and listened to the old brag of my heart. I am, I am, I am.” — Sylvia Plath

“I now see how owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.” — Brene Brown

“Once you’ve accepted your flaws, no one can use them against you.” — George R.R. Martin

“If you’re not someone who has a natural and effortless love for yourself, it’s hard to let go of your desire to please other people, and that’s really not an ingredient for a happy life.” — Anne Hathaway

“Not only do self-love and love of others go hand in hand, but ultimately, they are indistinguishable.” — M. Scott Peck

“Be faithful to that which exists within yourself.” — Andre Gide 

“Find out who you are and do it on purpose.” — Dolly 

“Treat yourself like someone you love.” — Glennon Doyle

 

“Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.” — George Bernard Shaw

“Do not feel lonely, the entire universe is inside you. Stop acting so small. You are the universe in ecstatic motion. Set your life on fire.” — Rumi

“Don’t worry if people think you’re crazy. You are crazy. You have that kind of intoxicating insanity that lets other people dream outside of the lines and become who they’re destined to be.” — Jennifer Elisabeth

“Self-care is never a selfish act—it is simply good stewardship of the only gift I have, the gift I was put on Earth to offer to others.” — Parker Palmer

   

“Feel the fact that you are enough.” — Mark Nepo

“You really have to love yourself to get anything in this world done.” — Lucille Ball

“It’s really about changing the conversation. It’s not about perfection. It’s about purpose. We have to care about our bodies and what we put in them. Women have to take the time to focus on our mental health—take time for self, for the spiritual, without feeling guilty or selfish. The world will see you the way you see you and treat you the way you treat yourself.” — Beyoncé

“My heart is beating, and I’m breathing and nothing anybody has ever done has changed that.” — Rupi Kaur

“Fall in love with taking care of yourself. Fall in love with the path of deep healing. Fall in love with becoming the best version of yourself but with patience, with compassion, and respect to your own journey.” — S. McNutt

“You are free, you are powerful, you are good, you are love, you have value, you have a purpose. All is well.” — Abraham Hicks

“The real difficulty is to overcome how you think about yourself.” — Maya Angelou

“Talk to yourself like someone you love.” — Brené Brown

“Flowers grow back even after the harshest winters. You will, too.” — Jennae Cecelia

“Love yourself when you’re tired. Love yourself when you’re weak. Love yourself when you’re confused. Love yourself when you’re broken. Love yourself when you’re restored.” — MB

“I am what I am. I can’t help myself, and if you don’t like it, get with somebody else.” — Jonas Brothers

“Your biggest commitment must always be to yourself.” — Bridgett Devoue

“No one can rescue me. I know because I’ve already tried to get them to do it. It doesn’t work. This is all on me.” — Michelle D’Avella

“Loving yourself isn’t vanity; it’s sanity.” — Katrina Mayer

“In stressful times, it’s okay to not be perfect. Cut yourself some slack. Because right now, you might not be your best self, but you are growing and you are trying your best. And that is good enough.” — Ashley Hetherington

 “Don’t fall into the trap of sacrificing your self-esteem for affection and acceptance.” — Ashley Graham

 “The same light you see in others is shining within you, too.” — MHN

“When you feel your worst is when you need to love yourself more.” — Unknown

“No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” — Eleanor Roosevelt

“Remind yourself that you cannot fail at being yourself.” — Wayne Dyer

“One of the most important things you can accomplish is just being yourself.” — Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

“A lot of times we are angry at other people for not doing what we should have done for ourselves.”— Rupi Kaur

“No one is you, and that is your superpower.” — Unknown

“Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.” — Coco Chanel

“Self love—it doesn’t mean that everyone will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. It means that you won’t let them change the way you see yourself; nor will you stick around for them to destroy you.” — Tony A. Gaskins Jr.

 

 

 “Find out who you are and be that person. That’s what your soul was put on this Earth to be. Find that truth, live that truth and everything else will come.” — Ellen DeGeneres

 “Love is the great miracle cure. Loving ourselves works miracles in our lives.” — Louise Hay

 “I used to be bound by people who placed limits on what they thought I could do. Through that, I learned that if you want something, you have to be the one to go out and do it. If you don’t ask for something, you’re not going to get it.” — Ashley Graham

 

“Never give up on anyone. And that includes not giving up on yourself.” — Dieter F. Uchtdorf

 “Make yourself a priority.” — Unknown

 “Self-care is giving the world the best ‘you’ instead of what’s left of you.” — Katie Reed

 “If there’s one thing I’m willing to bet on, it’s myself.” — Beyoncé

 “Self-care is how you take your power back.” — Lalah Delia

 “Life is too short to spend it at war with yourself.” — Unknown 

 “You owe it to yourself to become everything you’ve ever dreamed of being.” — Unknown

 

“I try to keep it real. I don’t have time to worry about what I’m projecting to the world. I’m just busy being myself.” — Demi Lovato

 “You change the world by being yourself.” — Yoko Ono

 “Trust the next chapter because you are the author.” — Unknown

  “It’s you versus you.” — Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

 “Be brave enough to heal yourself even when it hurts.” — Bianca Sparacino

 

“You are good enough to make whatever you want to achieve possible. You just need to find your talent and passion, then put a heck of a lot of work into it.” — Ashley Graham

 “When life puts you in touchy situations, don’t say, ‘Why me?’ Just say, ‘Try me.'” — Dwayne “The Rock” Johnson

 

  “Follow your passion. Stay true to yourself. Never follow someone else’s path unless you’re in the woods and you’re lost and you see a path. By all means, you should follow that.” — Ellen DeGeneres

  

“I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect.” — Maya Angelou

“I think in life you should work on yourself until the day you die.” — Serena Williams

  “Love is the absence of judgment.” — Dhali Lama

 “You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.” — Rumi

“Doubt kills more dreams than failure.” — Suzy Kassem 

 

“It is interesting how often we can’t see all the ways in which we are being strong.” — Lena Dunham

 “I was once afraid of people saying, ‘Who does she think she is?’ Now, I have the courage to stand and say, ‘This is who I am.'” — Oprah Winfrey

 

“Being comfortable in your own skin is one of the most important things to achieve. I’m still working on it!” — Kate Mara

“Put yourself first. Self-love is not selfish at all. It means that you’re taking care of yourself, and like my mom reinforced to me, to make sure that I was safe and that I was healthy.” — Laurie Hernandez

“If we treated ourselves as well as we treated our best friend, can you imagine?” — Meghan Markle

 “Just do what works for you because there will always be somebody who thinks differently.” — Michelle Obama

 “Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energy are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding what you will and won’t accept.” — Anna Taylor

“Nobody is perfect. I just don’t believe in perfection. But I do believe in saying, ‘This is who I am, and look at me not being perfect!’ I’m proud of that.” — Kate Winslet

“You have been criticizing yourself for years, and it hasn’t worked. Try approving of yourself and see what happens.” — Louise L. Hay

“I’m not going to apologize for who I am, and I’m going to actually love the skin that I’m in. I’m not gonna be striving for some other version of myself.” — Amy Schumer

“Your self-worth is determined by you. You don’t have to depend on someone telling you who you are.” — Beyoncé

“I just wanted to remind you, in case you needed to hear it, to be kind and loving to yourself, and talk to yourself like you would talk to your best friend.” — Camila Cabello 

“Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes… including you.” — Anne Lamott

“Take time off. The world will not fall apart without you.” — Malebo Sephodi

“Talk to yourself like someone you love.” — Brené Brown

“Talk to yourself like someone you love.” — Brené

“I celebrate myself, and sing myself.” — Walt Whitman

“And you? When will you begin that long journey into yourself?” — Rumi

“The bad news is time flies. The good news is you’re the pilot.” — Michael Altshuler

“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” ― Audre Lorde

“If your compassion does not include yourself, it is incomplete.” — Jack Kornfield ​

“Lighten up on yourself. No one is perfect. Gently accept your humanness.” — Deborah Day ​

“I must undertake to love myself and to respect myself as though my very life depends upon self-love and self-respect.” — Maya Angelou

“Mental health… is not a destination, but a process.” — Noam Shpancer

Taking care of yourself is a way of living. It is not a one-time act.

 

Quotes and Encouraging Words

  

SINCE LIVING WITH A CHRONIC ILLNESS LIKE MS IS LIKE LIVING IN A PRISON, THESE QUOTES CAN COMFORT THOSE PEOPLE AS WELL.

  Jail Quotes and Encouraging Words for Someone in Prison

Being in jail or prison can be an incredibly isolating and challenging experience, often marked by feelings of despair, regret, or loneliness.

During these times, words of encouragement can serve as a powerful source of comfort and hope.

They remind individuals that change, growth, and a brighter future is always possible.

Supportive and uplifting words can provide the motivation needed to face  struggles and work toward personal transformation.

Quotes offer a way to express understanding, compassion, and hope. These words remind inmates that their identity is not confined to their mistakes, and that growth, redemption, and second chances are always possible.

 

“Hate the sin, love the sinner.” – Mahatma Gandhi 

“Every man is guilty of all the good he did not do.” – Voltaire 

“The hardest prison to escape is your own mind.” – Bob Marley

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.” – George Eliot 

“Every saint has a past, and every sinner has a future.” – Oscar Wilde 

“No one saves us but ourselves. No one can, and no one may.” – Buddha 

“He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.” – Friedrich Nietzsche 

“Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.” – Theodore Roosevelt 

“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” – C.S. Lewis 

“Mistakes are always forgivable if one has the courage to admit them.” – Bruce Lee 

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.” – Martin Luther King Jr. 

“The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.” – Edmund Burke 

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go; they merely determine where you start.” – Nido Qubein 

“What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson 

Inspirational quotes for prisoners emphasize resilience, self-discovery, and the power of perseverance. They remind individuals that adversity can shape strength, that mistakes are stepping stones to growth, and that a brighter future is always within reach.

These words encourage prisoners to find purpose in their journey, and to believe in their ability to rise above current challenges with courage and determination.

“You are not defined by your worst moment.” – Bryan Stevenson 

“Out of suffering have emerged the strongest souls.” – Khalil Gibran 

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.” – Mae West 

“It is in the darkest hour that we must focus to see the light.” – Aristotle 

“It is not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.” – Epictetus 

“There is no saint without a past, no sinner without a future.” – Augustine of Hippo 

“Rock bottom became the solid foundation on which I rebuilt my life.” – J.K. Rowling 

“Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny.” – C.S. Lewis 

“Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.” – Confucius 

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all the darkness.” – Desmond Tutu

“Healing takes courage, and we all have courage, even if we have to dig a little to find it.” – Tori Amos 

“Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit.” – Napoleon Hill 

Gemini expands on: Man’s life is brief and transitory, characterized by impermanence and the unpredictability of the future.

 

Expand on this statement:


Man’s life is brief and transitory, characterized by impermanence and the unpredictability of the future.

 

Life is often seen as a fleeting journey, a brief moment in the grand expanse of time. The statement, "Man’s life is brief and transitory, characterized by impermanence and the unpredictability of the future," speaks to this core human experience. It highlights the temporary nature of our existence and the lack of control we have over what lies ahead.


This idea has been a central theme in philosophy and literature for centuries. Thinkers from ancient Greece to modern times have grappled with the implications of our short time on Earth. The statement suggests that nothing in our lives is permanent—our physical bodies, our relationships, our worldly possessions. This can be a sobering thought, but it can also be a source of motivation.


Embracing this impermanence can lead to a greater appreciation for the present moment. If the future is unpredictable, and our time is short, then the only thing we truly have is the here and now. This can encourage us to live more fully, to pursue our passions, and to cherish the people in our lives.


The unpredictability of the future is also a key part of the statement. We can plan and prepare, but ultimately, we can't control what happens. A sudden illness, a career change, or an unexpected event can alter the course of our lives in an instant. This lack of control can be frightening, but it also allows for hope and possibility. The future is not set in stone, and every day brings a new chance for change and growth.


In essence, the statement is a reminder to embrace the fleeting nature of life, to find meaning in the present, and to face the future with both humility and courage.
 


Do you have anything more to add?



The Psychological and Cultural Dimensions

The statement that life is brief and impermanent is not just a philosophical observation; it's a fundamental truth that cultures and individuals have grappled with for centuries. How we respond to this fact says a lot about our values. While the statement itself is universal, the human reaction to it varies dramatically across different traditions and on a personal level.


In Western thought, the concept of "memento mori"—Latin for "remember you must die"—has long served as a powerful reminder of mortality. This idea often motivated people to live a virtuous life, as they believed their time was limited and their actions had eternal consequences. This perspective views life as a linear journey with a definite end, placing great emphasis on achieving a legacy or fulfilling a purpose before that end arrives. The brevity of life becomes a call to action.


In contrast, Eastern philosophies often embrace a more cyclical view of time and existence. The Japanese aesthetic of wabi-sabi is a beautiful example of this. It finds beauty in things that are imperfect, transient, and incomplete, such as a weathered piece of wood or a hand-thrown ceramic bowl with a unique crack. This philosophy teaches us to see the natural process of decay and aging not as a flaw, but as a part of an object's story. It is a peaceful acceptance of impermanence, rather than a fight against it.

On a personal level, the knowledge of our fleeting time can have a profound psychological impact. For some, it may lead to existential anxiety or a feeling of hopelessness. But for many, it can be a powerful catalyst for change and purpose. When we truly accept that our time is limited, we are forced to confront what matters most to us. The simple, everyday moments suddenly feel more precious, and the things that once seemed important, like material possessions or social status, can fade into the background. This is a core principle of mindfulness, a practice that helps us intentionally focus on the present moment as a way to find clarity and peace amid the unpredictability of life.

Considering these different perspectives, how do you think our awareness of life's brevity changes what we prioritize?

That's a great question. The idea of life's transience is a deep one, and there's a lot more to unpack beyond its immediate philosophical implications.


The Pursuit of Legacy

One of the most profound human reactions to our impermanence is the pursuit of legacy. Knowing that our individual lives will end, we are driven to create something that will outlast us. This is the impulse behind art, literature, scientific discovery, and the desire to leave the world a little better than we found it. We want our ideas and contributions to echo through time, creating a kind of immortality not for ourselves, but for our influence.

Rosetta Stone*

This drive to create a lasting impact is a powerful force that has shaped human civilization.


The Paradox of Permanence

We also seek to create a sense of permanence in a world of change. We do this through tradition, ritual, and institutions. Think of a family's annual holiday dinner, a religious ceremony that has been performed for centuries, or the consistent rules of a sports game. These are all attempts to defy transience by creating fixed points in time—moments we can return to and rely on. By participating in these rituals, we connect with those who came before us and build a stable foundation for those who will come after.


The Role of Memory

Our relationship with memory also serves as a powerful counterpoint to impermanence. While our physical lives are brief, our stories and experiences can be passed down. Think of a photograph, a cherished family story, or a historical record. These are all ways we attempt to hold on to moments and people, making them feel less temporary. Memory, both personal and collective, acts as a bridge across the generations, allowing us to connect with the past and influence the future.

Ultimately, the tension between our brief existence and our desire for permanence is a fundamental part of the human condition. It's what gives our choices weight and our relationships value.


*To highlight a real-world example of an artifact that embodies the concept of human knowledge and influence outlasting a single lifetime. It is a picture of the Rosetta Stone itself.  It is a large, dark stone tablet, inscribed with three different scripts, and it is usually shown in a glass case, surrounded by visitors, in the British Museum in London.

The Rosetta Stone remains a perfect metaphor for our human desire to leave a lasting mark against the tide of impermanence. While the individual who carved the stone is long forgotten, the artifact itself has enabled us to unlock an ancient civilization's history. It is a tangible link to a fleeting past, a physical embodiment of the idea that while our lives may be brief, our contributions can persist for millennia.

 

Gemini can make mistakes, so double-check it

  

85-Year-Old: "It Took Me 50+ Years To Learn What I'm About To Share With You" | James Hollis...

 "It Took Me 50+ Years To Learn What I'm About To Share With You" | James Hollis

Did you know that we spend six entire years of our lives dreaming? According to this week's guest, these dreams carry vital messages from our deepest selves that most of us never hear.

James Hollis, Ph.D. was originally a Professor of Literature and Philosophy at various universities until mid-life when he retrained as a Pyscho-Analyst at the Jung Institute in Zurich. He currently lives and teaches in Washington, D.C. and is the author of twenty books, including his latest: Living with Borrowed Dust: Reflections on Life, Love and Other Grievances.

In this conversation, James explains the important difference between purpose and meaning, and shares how his own midlife depression at the age of 35 was a pivotal moment that caused him to confront the harsh reality that despite "doing all the right things," he wasn't living true to himself.

We explore the purpose of dreams and what vital messages are contained within them, why so many of us end up living our lives by other people's rules - trying to please family, fit cultural norms, or climb career ladders - and James explains that, whilst this approach might help us get by at first, if often leads to burnout, depression, and, ill health.

James also introduces us to his thought provoking “second half of life” concept  - not a chronological age but a psychological shift, when we start questioning who it is that we really are.

At nearly 85 years old and still seeing clients three days a week, James is full of clarity, perspective and wisdom. And I’m sure this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and motivated to live a more authentic life.

https://youtu.be/CIA3oLncnPk

Self-Transformation Through Mindfulness | Dr. David Vago | TEDxNashville

 

Self-Transformation Through Mindfulness | Dr. David Vago | TEDxNashville

How is the Self represented in the brain and how is it sculpted through our everyday moment-to-moment perceptions, emotions, and thoughts? 

Cognitive Neuroscientist, David Vago demonstrates that a systematic form of mental training involving meditation and mindful awareness has the potential to transform our self and our mental habits in a positive way. 

Learn more about how every moment is an opportunity to change our brain and strongly influence our health & longevity at both conscious and non-conscious levels.

A Cognitive Neuroscientist by training, David Vago has close to 20 years of experience with mindfulness practice and teaching, and over a decade conducting translational neuroimaging, cognitive, and clinical research on the basic mechanisms and therapeutic relevance of mindfulness and associated meditation/contemplative practices. 

Through his research, Dr. Vago focuses on one basic question –

“What are the basic neurobiological and physiological components that constitute adaptive mind-brain-body interactions and their therapeutic relevance in psychiatric settings?” 

In addition to being an expert in the emerging field of contemplative neuroscience, David has studied the neural mechanisms of neuropsychiatric disease and chronic pain using fMRI and is translating these findings into biologically-based diagnostic and therapeutic strategies for alleviating suffering. 

He is the research director at the Osher Center for Integrative Medicine at Vanderbilt University Medical Center and a research associate in the Functional Neuroimaging Laboratory, Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Harvard Medical School.

https://youtu.be/1nP5oedmzkM

DeepSeek says,

The adaptive interactions between the mind, brain, and body are fundamental to mental health and are highly relevant in psychiatric settings. These interactions involve complex neurobiological and physiological components that work together to maintain homeostasis, respond to stress, and promote well-being. Below is an overview of the key components and their therapeutic relevance:

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1. Neurobiological Components

a. Neural Circuits and Neurotransmitters

• Prefrontal Cortex (PFC): Involved in executive functions, decision-making, and emotion regulation. Dysregulation is linked to psychiatric disorders like depression and anxiety.

• Amygdala: Plays a key role in processing fear and emotional responses. Hyperactivity is associated with anxiety and PTSD.

• Hippocampus: Critical for memory and contextual learning. Chronic stress can impair hippocampal function, contributing to mood disorders.

• Neurotransmitters:

  • Serotonin: Regulates mood, sleep, and appetite. Targeted by SSRIs in depression.

  • Dopamine: Involved in reward, motivation, and pleasure. Dysregulation is implicated in addiction and schizophrenia.

  • GABA and Glutamate: Maintain excitatory-inhibitory balance. Imbalances are linked to anxiety and epilepsy.

b. Neuroplasticity

• The brain's ability to reorganize itself by forming new neural connections. Neuroplasticity is central to learning, recovery from injury, and therapeutic interventions like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT).

c. Stress Response Systems

• Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal (HPA) Axis: Regulates cortisol release in response to stress. Chronic activation can lead to psychiatric disorders like depression.

• Autonomic Nervous System (ANS):

  • Sympathetic Nervous System (SNS): Activates the "fight or flight" response.

  • Parasympathetic Nervous System (PNS): Promotes "rest and digest" functions. Dysregulation of the ANS is linked to anxiety and PTSD.

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2. Physiological Components

a. Immune System

• Inflammation: Chronic inflammation is associated with depression and other psychiatric disorders. Cytokines can cross the blood-brain barrier and affect mood and cognition.

• Psychoneuroimmunology: Studies the interaction between psychological processes, the nervous system, and the immune system.

b. Endocrine System

• Hormones like cortisol, oxytocin, and thyroid hormones play significant roles in mood regulation and stress responses.

c. Gut-Brain Axis

• The bidirectional communication between the gut microbiome and the brain. Dysbiosis (imbalance in gut bacteria) is linked to anxiety, depression, and autism spectrum disorders.

d. Cardiovascular and Respiratory Systems

• Stress and anxiety can lead to increased heart rate and blood pressure, while relaxation techniques can activate the PNS and promote calmness.

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3. Adaptive Mind-Brain-Body Interactions

• Homeostasis: The body's ability to maintain stability despite external changes. Psychiatric disorders often involve disrupted homeostasis.

• Allostasis: The process of achieving stability through physiological or behavioral change. Chronic allostatic load can lead to mental and physical health issues.

• Interoception: The perception of internal bodily states. Poor interoceptive awareness is linked to anxiety and eating disorders.

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4. Therapeutic Relevance in Psychiatric Settings

a. Pharmacological Interventions

• Target neurotransmitter systems (e.g., SSRIs, antipsychotics) to restore balance and alleviate symptoms.

b. Psychotherapy

• CBT: Helps rewire maladaptive neural circuits.

• Mindfulness-Based Therapies: Enhance neuroplasticity and interoceptive awareness.

• Exposure Therapy: Reduces amygdala hyperactivity in anxiety disorders.

c. Lifestyle Interventions

• Exercise: Promotes neurogenesis and reduces inflammation.

• Diet: Supports gut-brain axis health and reduces inflammation.

• Sleep Hygiene: Essential for neuroplasticity and emotional regulation

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DeepSeek says, "Life is Short: Seize the Moment!"

 DeepSeek says,

 "Life is Short: Seize the Moment!"

 

Life Is Short

"Life is short" is a common phrase that reminds us of the fleeting nature of our time and encourages us to make the most of it. It can serve as a prompt to prioritize what truly matters, pursue our passions, and cherish meaningful moments with loved ones. Here are a few ways to reflect on and act on this idea:

1. Focus on What Matters

Identify your core values and align your actions with them. Let go of things that don’t contribute to your happiness or growth.

2. Take Risks

Don’t let fear hold you back. Pursue your dreams, try new things, and step out of your comfort zone.

3. Be Present

Practice mindfulness and savor the present moment. Life happens now, not in the past or future.

4. Nurture Relationships

Spend time with people who uplift and inspire you. Strengthen connections and express gratitude for those you care about.

5. Let Go of Regrets

Learn from the past, but don’t dwell on it. Focus on what you can control and move forward.

6. Do What You Love

Make time for hobbies, passions, and activities that bring you joy and fulfillment.

7. Give Back

Contribute to something larger than yourself. Helping others can add meaning and purpose to your life.

8. Embrace Imperfection

Life is messy and unpredictable. Accept the ups and downs as part of the journey.

Ultimately, "life is short" is a call to live intentionally and authentically. How will you make the most of your time?

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Seize the Moment

"Seize the moment" is a powerful call to action, urging us to embrace opportunities, live fully, and make the most of the present. It’s about recognizing that time is fleeting and that the best way to honor life is to act decisively and passionately. Here are some ways to seize the moment:

1. Act Now, Not Later

Don’t wait for the "perfect time" to pursue your goals or dreams. Start today, even with small steps.

Procrastination often leads to missed opportunities. Take action while the moment is ripe.

2. Be Bold and Courageous

Step out of your comfort zone. Say yes to new experiences, even if they scare you.

Fear of failure often holds us back, but regret for not trying can hurt more.

3. Live in the Present

Practice mindfulness. Focus on what’s happening right now instead of dwelling on the past or worrying about the future.

Appreciate the little things—sunsets, laughter, or a quiet moment—that make life beautiful.

4. Take Risks

Great rewards often come from taking chances. Whether it’s starting a new project, traveling, or expressing your feelings, don’t let fear stop you.

Remember: You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.

5. Follow Your Instincts

Trust your gut. If something feels right, go for it. Overthinking can lead to missed opportunities.

Sometimes, the best decisions are made in the spur of the moment.

6. Celebrate Small Wins

Life is made up of small, meaningful moments. Celebrate them as they come.

Whether it’s finishing a task, learning something new, or spending time with loved ones, acknowledge and enjoy these victories.

7. Express Yourself

Tell people how you feel. Say "I love you," "Thank you," or "I appreciate you" while you can.

Don’t let fear of vulnerability keep you from connecting deeply with others.

8. Let Go of Perfection

Waiting for the perfect moment can mean missing out entirely. Embrace imperfection and take action anyway.

Life is messy, and that’s where the beauty lies.

9. Create Memories

Do something unforgettable. Travel, try a new hobby, or spend quality time with loved ones.

Memories are the treasures we carry with us forever.

10. Remember: Time Is Precious

Life is unpredictable. Don’t take it for granted. Use your time wisely and make it count.

As the saying goes, "Carpe Diem"—seize the day!

Seizing the moment is about living with intention, courage, and gratitude. It’s about making the most of the time we have and creating a life that feels rich and meaningful. So, what will you do today to seize your moment? 🌟

 

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Digital Drugs Have Us Hooked. Dr. Anna Lembke Sees a Way Out.

Digital Drugs Have Us Hooked. Dr. Anna Lembke Sees a Way Out.

The psychiatrist and author of “Dopamine Nation” wants us to find balance in a world of temptation and abundance.

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Life Is Short

 

  

 

 Dr. McGarey shares her six actionable secrets to enjoying lives that are long, happy, and purpose-driven:

1. -Spend your energy wildly: How to embrace your life fully and feel motivated every day.

2. -All life needs to move: How to move—spiritually, mentally, and physically—to help let go of trauma and other roadblocks.

3. -You are here for a reason: How to find the everyday “juice” that helps you stay oriented in your life’s purpose.

4. -You are never alone: How to build a community that’s meaningful to you.

5. -Everything is your teacher: Discover the deep learnings that come from pain and setbacks.

6. -Love is the most powerful medicine: Learn to love yourself—and others—into healing.

Life Is Short: 103-Year-Old Shares 6 Lessons For The Next 50 Years Of Your Life | Gladys McGarey

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